we've been there, we've done that

Lately, I've witnessed so many tears, confusions, self-doubts, and that is not good. I've heard stories and been asked for advises way too many times. If you have no clue what I'm talking about, it is the university enrollment phase. The most tricky, crucial, yet exciting stage at the edge of high school. Sooner or later every high school student will get into this phase, and it requires nothing but a good choice of fate.

It is heartbreaking to see so many of my friends feeling lost, confused, or even ready to back down. And it's even more heartbreaking when i can not relate to them at this time. I don't know what to say other than, "You got this, I know you can do it." which may not be helping. But, I mean it. I know they can do it, I know they will get through this. It is okay to cry, it is okay to feel hopeless, but you don't stay like that. This is just a tiny bit of a glimpse of your life. As I said before, this is just a phase, meaning it will end eventually. It may end well or it may not. Either way, your life does not end, it will continue.  

For those who feel intimidated by other's choices , threatened, or whatnot, don't be. You can't control one's decision, and they are not obligated to do as you say. It is pointless and a waste of time to find a way for them to finally take another path. Don't try to bring them down so that you can get up. Life is not always how you wish it to be. Stop worrying about others, and start working on yourselves. 

It's not that I haven't been through this, I have, way before all of you. And it may not exactly be the same case but I know how it feels to feel like you have nowhere to go, like you're not good enough, and feeling pressured with your own desire. I have been there, I have done that, and I survived. 

Miracles happen to those who believe it. God is here, there, and everywhere. He is always with us. He wants to see how much you WANT that, He wants to see your hard works, so that He knows that you deserve that. No one is promised with anything but death. Our job is to work our asses off and leave the rest to Him. Let Him do the job. 

Lastly, I know I have said it too many times, if you want something then go for it. The only one who is standing in your way is yourself. Do not let anything or anyone gets in the way of you chasing after what you really want. I am aware that we need to consider options and strategies, but I believe that we can achieve anything if we put our minds and our hearts to it. Do things with all your heart, and you will get what you deserve. If it's meant to be, it will be.

This one is dedicated to all of my friends who are having a hard time deciding, or struggling with their own choices.

I know you'll make it.